What if your divorce leaves you financially bereft and unable to live your old lifestyle? What if you have to take a “demeaning” job to pay the bills? What if you struggle for years with financial problems, while your ex-spouse enjoys a life of luxury and ease?
Certainly, jealousy might be a regular companion, as might feelings of anger, resentment, and frustration – as well as exhaustion from dealing with your financial challenges. If the divorce doesn’t turn out fairly – and your ex-spouse gets way more than his fair share, leaving you with not enough to make ends meet – that would be terrible.
However, even in this worst case scenario, silver linings abound!
For instance, you might be motivated to redouble your efforts in your career and generate wealth. You might be motivated to learn financial literacy and take control of your money destiny. You might find fulfillment in other areas of your life to compensate. You might become more spiritual and connect with people who share your values and spirit.
In other words, temporary financial hard times could be a blessing in disguise. They might open your mind and heart to other possibilities that could lead to different ways you can feel enriched and enrich others.
Of course, ideally, you don’t want to have to go through hard times or confront unfairness. You want to ensure that the martial asset distribution proceeds fairly and methodically. Turn to the team here at the Toussaint Law Firm, PC for thorough, insightful, and compassionate assistance with your case today. Call us for a free consultation.